Poem from dub friend.

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  • searchingforfriends

    I got this in an e-mail from a childhood friend that is still an active JW. I found it to be very upsetting and was wondering if anyone else gets the kind of e-mail forwards from friends/family that are still in? And how you handle it. I'm sure it came to me cause I recently told her about my relationship with a "worldly" man.

    He doesn't Serve Jehovah!

    I'd like to tell you a story, about true love at last.
    It's very informative and has an interesting cast.
    So pay close attention, it's sad but true,
    And don't ever think this can't happen to you.

    I met him during lunch break on a sunny day,
    He sat next to me and smiled, as I was about to pray.
    We talked on and on. He was such a gentleman.
    I wished that this moment would never end.

    Ah, but then it came to be the end of my lunch hour.
    I tell you when he stood up; he looked just like a tower!
    We met again and again. Our souls began to cling.
    I pondered in my mind, "Is this the REAL thing?"

    He doesn't smoke or drink, or gamble away his money.
    He doesn't do drugs or things like that and he's nobody's "honey".
    Let's face it, he's fine and he's really got a great "bod".
    The only thing that's missing is he doesn't serve Jehovah God.
    I'll just give him a chance, he'll change in time.
    I won't mind being "his", if he'd like to be "mine".
    My friends tried to warn me. I didn't listen or care.
    Little did I know my life would be one of despair?

    The wedding was fine. The judge married us in the fall.
    You see, I couldn't have a wedding in a Kingdom Hall
    My dad, no, he didn't give me away.
    With the pain in his heart, he didn't have much to say.

    Mom listens to me, please don't cry and whine.
    Don't worry about us, we'll be just fine.
    I've got a good man and he has a good job.
    The only thing is, he doesn't serve Jehovah God.

    Everything is going fine, but recently at night.
    When it's time for the meeting, we just fuss and fight.
    He says, "Who's this God, breaking us apart?
    Don't go tonight dear, please follow your heart."

    So I listen and stay, to keep peace at home.
    But now oftentimes, I feel so all-alone.
    I don't associate with the friends much at all,
    To keep peace at home, I don't go to the Hall.

    Service and Meetings, all that's history.
    Today, I decorated my first Holiday Tree.
    The holiday celebrations are now part of my life.
    You see, I must obey my husband, for I am his wife.

    The brothers would call. I wouldn't answer the door.
    I don't read the magazines. Reading is such a bore.
    Marrying out of the Truth, it really sets you "free".
    "Free" from Jehovah's love that once was in me.
    I just got the news! I'm having a "little one"!
    I can hardly wait to tell my dear "Hon".
    He was in a bad mood. He lost his job that day.
    He told me as he hit me, "That's just one more bill to pay!"

    Then he apologized, "I'm sorry, please forgive me Dear"
    You see, I've heard those words more often than I'd like to hear.
    I have two jobs now. I must support my household.
    My husband says he'll find work, but now that's getting old.

    I'm tired. I'm stressed. I'm feeling very strange.
    My schedule at both jobs, I'll have to rearrange.
    I should be very happy; the baby is due any day.
    Things just have to get better, somehow, some way.

    I'm married to this man, for better or for worse.
    The only problem is, he doesn't put Jehovah first.
    The baby came today, she's so little and so light.
    She's not crying or making noise, something's just not right.

    "What could be wrong?" I thought aloud as I lay in bed.
    In came the doctor looking sad, and then he shook his head.
    "Mrs. Unbeliever," he said, "there's something I must confess."
    You and the baby tested positive to the new HIV test.

    I started crying. I couldn't believe the words the doctor said.
    To know that in a very short time, my child and I'd be dead!
    Listen to me! All of you! I'm telling you to your face!
    To marry an Unbeliever, is a TOTAL DISGRACE,

    To Jehovah, our loving father, who provides for his sheep.
    That's why he sets the guidelines for us to hold and keep.
    Wait on Jehovah. In his due time He'll set things straight.
    Be patient and He'll give you a Theocratic mate.

    One who loves Jehovah and you know that he'll do right.
    One who'll be there with you when it comes to "Meeting" night.
    A worldly man has nothing to offer - really nothing at all
    But unhappiness, sadness, sorrow, and a very serious fall.

    So be wise my Sisters, and please don't try to rush things.
    Wait patiently on Jehovah, and accept the blessings he brings.
    Don't look to worldly men as mates, at your job or at the Mall.
    REMEMBER! Brothers that serve Jehovah are at the Kingdom Hall.

    Author Unknown.

  • carla

    That makes me physically ill.

  • Velvetann

    I am gagging on that, I don't know what to say other than its so manipulative.

    Yes, if we don't make the right choices with men or partners it will not turn out right no matter what religion we are in..

    Many have chosen a JW partner and their lives were Hell, their husbands have molested their babies and beaten their wives.

    Whoever wrote that did not see both sides of this.

    Thanks for sharing that


  • bigmouth

    " Author Unknown." - for their own protection probably.

    Write an anonymous poem back about Christian child molesters

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  • crazyblondeb

    All I can say is that it makes me want to up-chuck!

  • XOCO

    for some reason i got this funny feeling that i was thinking about this leaving the borg and dating a :worldly" person...I remember a long time ago some brother gave a talk like this which was very similar to this poem... and these kinds of talks were aimed at the teenagers and 20 year old crowd

    the only thing i don't get is this:

    I've got a good man and he has a good job.
    The only thing is, he doesn't serve Jehovah God.

    Everything is going fine, but recently at night.
    When it's time for the meeting, we just fuss and fight.
    He says, "Who's this God, breaking us apart?
    Don't go tonight dear, please follow your heart."

    first of all wouldn't he know that prior to marrying the girl that she is/was one of JWs and do all of the JW rituals that they do...I'm assuming that they weren't dating beyond 6 months LOL

    You and the baby tested positive to the new HIV test.

    As most "worldly" people do today is take an HIV/STD test before they have sex.. how come she did not do the same Because all JWs who are in the "truth" would never ever ask their partner to take an HIV/STD test because we are all supposed to be "virgins"i.e clean from venereal diseases... what about JW people who are divorced... the JW divorced person u are going to marry is like having sex with their previous sex history (sex history with all of their ex husbands/wives). how come they don't check if they have something lingering in them... i mean if they really care about their mate both parties should get checked.

    Also this kind of stuff can happen to anyone! even JWs couples but in the poem they will never admit that.


  • SacrificialLoon

    The title of this should be What if Dr. Seuss wrote My Book of Bible Stories. Actually no, that's insulting to Dr. Seuss. This is just a bad scaremongering nursery rhyme.

  • Casper

    Welcome Searching...

    No, I don't receive this type of thing, if I did I would just delete it. But, I am "Sure" that if you told them you are seeing a worldly man...there is no doubt as to why they sent it.

    To marry an Unbeliever, is a TOTAL DISGRACE

    That part really bothers me, it's so judgemental.

    When my JW husband passed away, I married a so called "Worldly" man, and believe me.... It was not a "Disgrace". He is a wonderful, kind, understanding person. Generous to a fault.... my Rock..........

    As for the poem as a whole....I agree with above...



    4 Words - I Want To Hurl

    In my hall I can name many sisters who, due to wating on a mate from within, are reaching old age and still single. Sad to look at. Even sadder when you find out many of them were all trying to get at the same man (due to the lack of brothers at the hall). I kid you not.

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