I've tried to be nice about it, perhaps i'm just a little TOO nice when dealing with her.
Ok, my ex-fiancee started blowing up my phone again and leaving voicemails. I considered changing my number weeks ago but changed my mind when her calls stopped but I might need to consider it now.
Anywho......she's been leaving voicemails again saying how she's moving on with her life, moving out of State even, going to find someone else that really loves her.....yadda yadda yadda. Then she left another one earlier saying she's going to go to the elders to tell them something about me that she thinks they should know. I will say that she has NOTHING on me. There is nothing i've done judicially to get DF'd or reproved for, so the only ammo she has to use are lies. That's all I can really think that she would do to warrant her going to the elders about me for something. To be honest, I don't think she's aware of the "two witness" rule, so it will only make her look foolish when everything is denied. If she has something to rat me out for, why do it now? I haven't had contact with her for months, so I don't know if she's trying to get reaction out of me and feels that this will or what.
I've tried to keep it civil between the two of us, but she's making it difficult for me.
Is legal action something I should consider?
She has alot of psychological issues that I know she has a hard time dealing with, but my patience is running thin. Like i've said, she's the one that gave the notion that she is superior to me since she attends JW meetings and I don't, yet, like i've said here before, she has done something recently which wouldn't surprised me if she were to get charged criminally. I don't see her busting down the door of the KH to tell the "brothers" that bit of info.
At this point, I really don't care what she throws at me when the Borg is involved, I just want the harrassment to stop. I see that it would only help me and help my family see how much of a sham the Borg actually is. She's actually gone and lied on my family to the elders before, and they were a bit shaken by the way they dealt with me, so yeah, this may be a blessing in disguise.
Perhaps i'm ALLOWING all this trouble to go on, but like I said, I still try to be conscious of her emotions. Maybe that is a problem, since she obviously doesn't care about mine anymore.