berean2 and earthtone-
thanks for the thoughts...
the problem is that i do know he thinks that he is making a choice between god and i...and he chose god.
he was impossible to speak with regarding religion. he always felt 'attacked' by me, but it was he who was attacking. he has a big problem with the fact that i don't need to know what created me. my thoughts are that i will never know until it is smacked up against my face (and that may never happen). i am just concerned with being the best human that i can be...and not because i am afraid of eternal damnation or because i'm trying to kiss butt to some god. it's because, at the end of the day, it feels like the right thing to do.
this is not good enough for him.
yes, it has been over 3 weeks since we have spoken. it seems to me, it you really loved someone, you would be worried about how they are doing, no?
i am in love with this man, and i am pissed. as if jehovah, if he exists, is worried about my man loving, and being loved.
earthtone- what changed for you? why did you stop giving up good people for your religion? what clicked?