I haven't been to meetings in a long time (trying to fade). Ever so often I do run into a witness or 2 who are friendly, but reserved (after all I am considered in active). Anyway, my hubby & I are currently working on a letter to send to the society that will more then likely get us DF'd or disassociated (same thing I guess). Until then the witnesses think we are spiritually weak and have been leaving voice mail messages, notes on our door, etc. wanting to know where the hell we are. They have even contacted some of my family members (also in active) wanting to know our whereabouts.
With that said, last week I found a note on my door from a "goody two shoes" elder and his wife informing me that our bookstudy has been changed and we are now in their book study. They also said that this week is the CO's visit (all hail the mighty JW pope is in town) and want us to come (like that's gonna resolve ALL issues).
Obviously I have no plans to attend, but something tells me that we will receive a "sheparding call" some time over the weekend. Although we are eventually going to tell the elders our intentions of leaving, we are not yet ready to do so. I want to first tell my family members, and then write letters to some JW friends, etc. before the elders make their juicy announcement (I think they get off on this stuff I swear). I don't know what to do. Do I pretend I'm not home and don't answer the door bell this weekend? Do I answer the door bell and talk to them? Any advice would be greatly appreciated? Thanks!