Luna, That's a horrific story! No one is worth taking your own life for. As I stated in my earlier post, I'll soon be dumping him. I would love to go to the congregation on him but he would only retaliate against me and destroy what i have which isn't worth it to be with him. We used to have bible studies at lunch and we don't even do that anymore. (his doing). Now he thinks I'm soured on all witnesses which isn't true but gee, I wonder why the thinks that? LOL! I've known a few women witnesses but he's the first male witness I've had any major contact with. Thanks for sharing your experience with me.
My 1st time in a KH
He used to be all into me in the beginning(typical man) and has sinced backed off. I will be breaking it off soon because he's not the same man I met 3 yrs ago and has turned out to be a mega jerk.
Sorry........ I'm still spitten my water after reading the first sentence. Now seriously, MEGA JERK???, that's putting it kindly. Also, what are you doing w/a married man???????????? Don't you have any shame?
I could add my 2 cents worth about a married man cheating, but I choose not to. But I noticed that a lot of you ladies' blood was boiling over ! You're the "other woman" Florida lady that we loathe for causing break ups of families and lots and lots of pain.
- GO BACK TO THAT HALL AND ASK TO SPEAK TO THE ELDER IN CHARGE (THE PRESIDING OVERSEER) AND TELL HIM ALLLLLL ABOUT IT.
My guess is that going to his meetings will really freak the guy out anyhow. He may have found a comfort zone for his double life, one life in front of god and his wife and another life with you. Attending his meetings brings these two conflicting worlds together producing guilt and fear and he will have to be honest with himself for once if no-one else.
THE POOR BASTARD !
Luna, That's a horrific story
Well, that was Balsam's story, but I agree that its quite horrible and sad.
How cool would it be to show up at Brother Cheater's KH and scare the crap outta him? You could even say hello to his lovely wife and shake hands with the Presiding Overseer. Mr. Sexybutt would prolly have a coronary. Of course, I'm sure he'd be glad to return the favor.
I know why your boyfriend there is desperate to hide his illicit relationship with you...he'd most likely lose his wife, be branded a hyprocrite and an adulterer, and be disfellowshipped from the congregation...but why do you cheat on your husband? Seems more honest to end a relationship that you apparently don't value all that much than to sneak around behind his back having lunchtime sex with Stooper Dub. ...Unless its because of financial reasons. Kind of a nasty way to play somebody, though.
I am a Christian and always have been to church.
Does going to church make you a Christian?
Right on Honesty!!
(we're both married)
Trying to be fair here, comments keep being made about the JW guy but what about the poster who is also married? Forgive me but I don't see what going to his KH will do but create more fire and one you may not want to play with. I also don't see what posting you have slept with him will do either, Is it a way for getting back at him? What about your husband and are there any children involved? just thoughts i had while reading the post.
Honesty, I didn't mean that going to church makes you a christian I just was stating that to say I've never stepped foot inside a hall before.I was brought up in the church and have no desire to be a witness.