GreaterFreedom....welcome to the board...and thanks for sharing with us.
First off, how do you like the fact these fella's haven't contacted you in all your time away from the meeting until now......to "get you"? Aren't they just wonderful shepards? If they saw lights 2 years ago, why didn't they investigate way back then?
Here are their instructions for handling YOUR particular case as stated in the "Elders Manuel".
See if they are doing what they are recommended to do in your case. It appears they ARE NOT.
Baptized persons who have not associated for some time.
If you learn of serious wrongdoing on the part of such a
person, the matter should be investigated if it poses a
threat to the congregation's cleanness and welfare or caus-
es a public scandal.
Consider the following:
Does he still profess to be a Witness?
Is he generally recognized as such in the congrega-
tion and/or t e community?
Does the person have a measure of contact or
association with the congregation so that a leaven-
ing, or corrupting, influence exists?
How did the matter become known to the elders?
UNIT 5 (a)
Is the person willing to meet with a committee,
thus admitting accountability to the Christian con-
Depending upon length of inactivity and other factors
suggested above, elders may determine to hold the
matter in abeyance.
In such a case, a record of the person's questionable
conduct should be made for the congregation file so
that everything noted might be clarified when the
person shows interest in becoming active again.
If the sinful conduct is known only to believing family
members and no congregation action is taken because
of the factors outlined above, believing relatives will
likely determine to curtail family association severely,
viewing the relative as bad association. ( I Cor. 15:33)
If the individual still professes to be a Witness and is
willing to meet with the judicial committee, the matter
should be handled in the normal way. However, when
factors such as possible legal action exist, it is best to
consult the Society before proceeding. (w87 9/1 p. 14)..... ( all bold type mine )
If you want to give them some shit as suggested( hee hee) take this latter route.
Gumrevenge.......who thinks he'd choose the latter one for these uncaring dickheads who never called on you till now. Screw em.