After seeing a documentary a while ago where less than average looking middle aged mother of 5 was transformed into a beauty pageant ready model I'll opt for personality 'cause it is much harder to modify later.
LOOKS OR PERSONALITY?
I like your thinking. For me spirituality, Love for God, Jesus Christ and LOVE for the Truth is most important, after that come personality, and the way person look is on 3 position.
the personalitly for sure, looks fade
BOTH. Although, I think a person could be ok looking but have such a wonderful personality, that I'd give them 2 extra points on the 1 to 10 scale. I guess not everyone can have what I've got....And who cares about spirituality?