"Jehovah's clean people"?
Sorry - but that is a loaded description. The organization is rotten from the core.
There may be many, many people involved with JW's who are only trying to do the right thing with their life. They many truly be drawn to God and want to learn more about him, etc. etc. It sounds like you are one of these, anewme.
But I personally will never understand why people stay with the JW's or try to return to them after learning all of their false prophecies and incorrect doctrines, not to mention their flip-flopping on critical issues, the list goes on and on...
I was born and raised in the JW faith and I had to leave everything behind to try and stake out a normal, healthy life for myself. D'fing and love? Give me a freakin' break. It's a tool used to keep control - it may sound good on the surface - but in reality it's a shameful practice.
Being treated as well as you report, anewme, is something I never saw or experienced in all my years with the JW's. Furthermore, even after being reinstated, people were always marked. Whispers, gossip... Disgusting!
I am really not trying to attack anyone with this post - it just stirs up bad feelings and makes me very frustrated. So please don't take offense.