The worst day of my life

by dedpoet 81 Replies latest members private

  • dedpoet
    dedpoet

    Hi everyone,.

    I haven't posted in a while, and neither has Linda. I saw the thread earlier asking about us, and I want to thank you all so much. You are the finest friends, and people, we have ever known, and we love you all.

    The reason we haven't been around for a while is because Linda has been in hospital having some tests. Until today, we didn't know the problem, and didn't want to worry anyone by posting about it. Apart from that I have been vitually living at the hospital, work aside, just lately. My employers have allowed me to take some of my next years holidays early, so I'm off this week.

    We had the diagnosis today, and the news is very bad, awful really.

    Linda has cancer of the pancreas, advanced, and it has spread to other organs. It is treatable, and we will be discussing that later this week. We both knew that the doctors were testing for it, but were desperately hoping it would not be that. I am numb with shock, we both are. I am typing this through tears, it's so hard to bear such news. Please keep Linda in your thoughts and prayers. I will try to keep you updated.

    love

    Trev

  • What-A-Coincidence
    What-A-Coincidence

    my heart is saddened

  • Dagney
    Dagney

    Oh my oh my.

    My prayers are with you and Linda. May you have strength for the journey.

  • helncon
    helncon

    Oh (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Trev and Linda)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

    My deepest thoughts are with you both in this sad time.

    May all things work out for you

    Helen

  • bikerchic
    bikerchic

    Oh my gosh Trev! I am so sorry, this is just not fair!!!!!

    I'm beside myself and typing through tears as well.....please, please, please give Linda my love and you two hang in there I will definitely be thinking positive vibes for you both.

    Love you guys!

  • serendipity
    serendipity

    ((Linda & Trev)) I'll keep you in my prayers.

  • crazyblondeb
    crazyblondeb

    All afternoon, since your email, I've had a rock in my stomach. My heart actually hurts for both of you.

    Know how much you both are loved. We will all fight this together!

    shelley

  • evita
    evita

    I am so sorry this has happened to you both. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
    Eva

  • Who are you?
    Who are you?

    Sending prayers for both of you.

  • tall penguin
    tall penguin

    (((trev & linda)))

    Will hold you both in my heart.

    tall penguin

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