Hey Ray & Joel, Thank you for posting this. You are onto something with this tactic. We don't hate them! We hate the lies! It really throws them of guard when you mention 'love', because they think all apostates are angry and bitter. (Sure some are and some of us WERE when we realized the falsehoods and manipulation, it's only natural at first.) They are not used to talking about love between themselves individually. And how can they argue LOVE, since that is what Jesus preached???? We can make more headway by being loving and kind. For those of us that have had years of ministry school training, let's turn it around and use it to teach TTATT. Thanks again for the post. It was inspiring! God Bless!