My elder buddy and I would frequent strip clubs when we wanted to. I did that once when away on business. 204 for a lap dance I considered great value as you were allowed to touch - though not down below of course
R Rated movies on a very regular basis
I know many JWs, including elders, that drank excessively but that wasn't considered too big a deal. ABSOLUTELY - 1 bottle of Gin per week no problem. The Service overseer at the time made sure he had a big twist of lemon in his Gin and Tonic.
Oral sex with my wife.