Well Mav, at least you know who is to blame.
I was never spoiled. I started helping pay the house payment as a teen. I began helping with the younger siblings at 11. I learned how to cook a roast or a chicken in elementary school and I never had to go to Europe to do so.
Mav, you're a good guy but, you need to let her learn about the hardships of life. No matter how much it pains you or her and, it will hurt you more than her, you do. I used to curse my parents and promise to never speak to them again but, I learned a hell of alot from them. Don't coddle your daughter. You'll hurt her in the long run if you do.
I wish you and her nothing but the best.
~Aztec