jgnat... I stay far away from him. I never answer the phone when he calls. When I had facebook I refused to accept his friend request. He deleted me from his friends. I have instructed my dad not to inform me of anything he is doing or his latest health crisis. My dad has also been instructed not to tell him anything that is going on in my life. If he were to die tonight I could still sleep. He is dangerous to me. Until he realizes he has a problem and that 2+2=4 and not 5 therapy wont help him. I'm not going to waste my time hoping he will change. This may sound cold but I have to protect myself.
Go a head everyone and rip me up for my decision.I know you will.