Especially when you were never baptized and have not been an active member in years! Yesterday I went to my moms to get some of my stuff out of her garage so I could put it in storage. I walked right into the snake pit. She was the host so she had about 10 people over for lunch. I was putting the stuff in the back of my friends truck and I was not out there 2 minutes when they all came out and wanted to know how I was doing. These are the same people who have ignored me forever. I was very leery(sp?). I told them I was doing great. One of the bitches asked well what happened when you went to court? That's the real reason they wanted to talk to me is because they read my name in the newspaper. Over NYE my friends and I were arrested for public intoxication. The idiots could have asked my mom. It was almost like they wanted to rub in the fact that I had been arrested and that if I was still going to KH this would have not happened. I told them it was no big deal. It was a mistermeanor, plead no contest paid my fine and went on my way. The judge even told us he was glad we were not driving.
Then another bitch said I would be so humilated. Then I said it was funny as hell. In reality I was scared to death at the time because I have never been arrested.
Then one of the older adults said well I hear your graduating from college this spring. I was like yes I am. Then they said I heard you went on vacation to Las Vegas. I said yes and did lots of gambling, drinking, and went to clubs. You could see the disapproval on their faces. Then they said my mom was really worried about me and they invited me to go to KH with them!!! I declined. Then an older pioneer said are you really happy? I said I am very happy. My life would be perfect if your org did away with shunning. Total silence and they all walked away. I yelled what no good bye!! I'm insulted. Pricks!!
I really think they thought I was miserable or something and wanted to get in my business and judge me as usual. This will spread thru the KH like wildfire. I am so sick of the witnesses. I can't go to the post office or Wal-Mart w/o running into them. I run into them all the time. Well I plan to move far away this summer. Now I have given them a reason to shun me!!