Hey, Thorn,
Look at most teenagers in most religions. Fact is, most teenagers feel it is their duty to rebel, against any and all things. I think it's programmed - rebellion so that they will, finally want to move out - and by then their parents will be happy to help them pack.
As for being raised witnesses, yes, it's probably programmed, but the same can be said for Baptists, Catholics, etc., can't it? Most parents try to raise their children in the faith that they are in. Very few parents are "enlightened" and allow their children complete freedom to choose their own religion - particularily as teenagers.
Personally, I feel the biggest problem is not realizing that smoking, drinking, even sex are not the worst things in the world to deal with. The problem is, if the child is rebellious - he is not dealt with, as you said, but cut off. Then the child is more rebellious, but still remembers his roots, as we all do.
It's not just the Society's fault - it's all of our faults, including the teenagers. I'm a parent - I know.
My daughter has been disfellowshipped for 10 years, been to other churches, and still feels that the Witnesses are closer to her expectations than Presbyterians, Baptists, etc. Go figure.
Edited by - waiting on 16 June 2000 9:24:54