That having been said, Elders can be fickles beasts, and if it suits them they might just do that.
This and what Mulan wrote pretty much sums it up. Even on the body of elders I was on, some of us (like me) had a "live and let live" attitude. Others were always on a witch hunt. For example, a few years back the Society directly body of elders to find those in the territory who no longer go to the meetings. On the surface, it was direction from the Society to "help those who have become spiritually weak." But we elders knew it was meant to root-out those who were still JW's but were leading a "worldy" life. Each of us elders were given names and address to contact. Some of us tried to contact these people once, found no one home, and reported back "oh, they must have moved away." Other elders went hunting, tracked these people down, hoping to find them doing something that could lead to df'ing. And many of them were.
So, to make a long story short, it's all up to how the local elders view you and if they're uptight or laid back.