@Smiles
You're right. But my mind is a bit of a mess here...
I'm exhausted, tired of fighting to accept silly rules by crazy people and their followers until I was able to run away.
My wife's mother is an old JW and my wife doesn't want to disappoint her in her last years...
Our younger daughter is dating a JW boy and they really don't care about what's right or wrong. It's too much trouble and not emotional and socially good for them now...
And I'm in the middle of all this mess...