ah thanks for your responses, she is helping me in ways i didn't imagine i needed help, i lost my 4 children to the wt when i was df'd, about 5 years ago,,,,,and i have a very strong need to nuture, care for, etc,,,and i have time for grooming for her,,,
our local petcetera has a deal for apic, $8, for a small package, if they come in a costume for halloween
her name is harley, and i am dressing her as a biker chic, but when i tried to put her harley bandana on her head, instead of her neck, she looked like a gramma selling perogies, lol, i will try to upload pics,
i even found myself giggling for the first time in about 5 years, might even bring her to my therapist next week,
anyone else have that kind of experience in their healing from the wt? or am i just being silly
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