Iown Mylife:
...Jerry Decker. He really believed in being sympathetic and understanding.
In my previous post I mentioned an elder's remark about leaning toward mercy when in doubt. It would have been in the late 1970s or early 1980s when he said that, but the modern elder's manual says the opposite.
Like your experience with Jerry Decker, who was compassionate, I believe the elder was telling me the truth at the time. Now it seems that the organization has changed, that it has become more harsh in making judgements and is leaning away from being merciful.
In other words, the Watchtower organization is becoming more and more controlling as time goes on.