tell me how much the elders worry about me and how much the brothers miss me, but nobody has really tried to contact me in person.
Same here, I hear so much how people miss me and I have heard of one sister who cried because I haven't been going to the meetings. But has she or the others even called, txt, emailed etc...? NO!
Fake love, and crocodile tears!!!
Any ideas on how i can avoid this "shepherding" hell?!?
Just simply refuse, I did, the elders called me a few times and I simply kept saying: "Thank you so much for calling, it's nice to hear that you care but I am doing extremely well and have no need for help as their is nothing to help me with. Thank you but no thanks"
It worked well.
I wish you all the best ele_lux
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