36 for me and I'm now 53, but I'm one of those that threw the baby out with the bathwater. Not only didn't the witlesses make sense, after while the bible made even less sense.
Ada
i can scarcley believe my eyes.
i read in another thread about c. t. russells attitude that his 'studies in the scriptures' is better than the bible and come to the conclusion they are not god abandoned today, god was never there.. fast forward to modern times and they are still at it, likening their body of teachings as being part of the bible.. most of you already know the pasages in their own lit that i refer to, i'm just stating my feelings as i dismantle a 38 year old belief system.. it seems to me, that all along, the belief of the watchtower society is this: our writings are true, they are backed up by the bible.
rather than, the bible is true, backed up by our writings.. disapointed.
36 for me and I'm now 53, but I'm one of those that threw the baby out with the bathwater. Not only didn't the witlesses make sense, after while the bible made even less sense.
Ada
a recent post showed the problem in the congo of evangelists.
playing off folk beliefs in witches, instead of educating.
people not to have them, in order to gain popular support for.
Its happening here too, don't kid yourself. Here the manhood is threatened through homosexuality, and fear of abortion. Wins elections for them. Seems its more important to bring those babies into the world than take care of them after they are here. Don't get me wrong, I'm not selling abortion, I'm just calling out the tactic.
Ada
I was socially isolated way past the point of "normal JW kids" while growing up, isolated small town where my dad was considered weak, so we were not associated with. My parents were fanatics and we were not allowed to speak to people outside school.
So consequentially I don't know how to talk to people, never understood chit chat too well. I try but its a major hamper in friend making.
Ada
according to pew, there are now more evangelical protestants in the united states than mainline protestants.
thankfully, the jws hardly register in the grand scheme of things, below.. .
some say we are witnessing the death of "intellectual protestantism".. lets face it: so far as the great mass of american protestants are concerned, theology is a dead letter.
This scares me more than the economy on any given day.
woman wins trespassing judgment against jehovah's witness.
miscellaneous news.
source: foxnews.
Yea I lived with a day sleeper for quite awhile and it was hell to keep neighborhood kids from screaming in front of the house and people from knocking at the door. Put up a sign at eye level and no one sees it.
why do people wear these things?.
don't these people know they make everyone else sick?
for those who wear perfume: please do not spray it directly onto yourself.
http://www.immuneweb.org/articles/perfume.html
What people with compromised immune systems are reacting to includes a long list of toxic chemicals. Unlike the food industry, unlike any industry remotely connected to medicine, the perfume industry does not answer to ANYONE regarding carcinogens in their products, which include cleaning products in addition to perfumes, colognes, hand and body lotions, hair products, etc.
I have asthma. Perfume is a known trigger for me. They have also been known to give me migraines immediately. Not every single perfume does, but I don't feel a need to start a survey to ask which one it is that doesn't bother me.
My one question is, why do so many people feel the need to marinate in the stuff?
Ada
what bothers me most about df'ing is not only the shunning, but the constant verbal reminders (by elders and the jw pubs) that jehovah has 'taken his holy spirit' away from you.
its sad cause the whole scenario of being a jw is like living with an abuser:.
abuse: abuser comes on strong - is sweet and falls in love quickly vs jws: love bombed and drawn into the org by association.
Yes, both abusers and cults use these same tactics. It's all about power.
since the meaning of life has change for most of us here, i thought it would be interesting to hear your answer to this question now.. for me, the meaning is to be close to family and friends, enjoy life as much as possible and follow my heart while being as good person i can be.. your turn.
/newborn.
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Eagles may soar in the clouds, but weasels never get sucked into jet engines. ~Attributed to both Jason Hutchison and John Benfield
It may be that your sole purpose in life is simply to serve as a warning to others. ~unknown
There are only two tragedies in life: one is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it. ~Oscar Wilde
Life is a moderately good play with a badly written third act. ~Truman Capote
Don't ask me why, I just got the urge to see some quotes about life, I thought I'd share some funny ones.
Ada
largly, i found over the years, the media seldom runs stories on jws.
sure there is the odd sensation in a paper about a child not having blood or something or some brief mention.. why has the media not got hold of the child abuse situation?
with the mainstream church's in australia and globally, they had a field day.
Media news is a high dollar business conglomerate. Their business is not news, it's ratings and whatever drives up the price of their stock so that investers can have a higher return. They seek out the sensational and play to their base. News about JWs does not generate revenue for them either in stocks nor in advertising revenue. Hence the news conglomerates do not care.
Most people in the world don't care either, after all, they figure that JWs are a bunch of wacko's, and as such there is a certain amount of, "well thats what you get when you join a cult" mentality.
Ada
you count 10 hours per month but havn't even mentioned your beliefs to a non-dub in years.. you underline your study articles at random and write fake notes in the margins.. you smoke joints to get through meetings, field service and assemblies.. you're secretly banging an elder's wife.. you stuff monopoly money in the contribution box.. you keep your eyes open during prayer and giggle.. when everyone else says "amen" at the end of a prayer, you whisper "what bullshit.".
you have a copy of crisis of conscience in a box buried in your back yard.. you play with an ouija board and watch smurf cartoons when no one is around.. you think "thriller" was the great music video ever made.. you read comic books in the kingdom hall bathroom during meetings.
when questioned about your long time spent in the bathroom, you whisper "i'm constipated.
never mind, can't figure out how to enter HTML.
carry on