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  Songs that speak to my heart when I think of the organization

  by nancy drew in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fre89067f1g.

  this song is how i feel about the organization.. hello everyone!.

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  treadnh2o

  The lyrics don't really fit but the title of Bob Marley's "Waiting in Vain"sure does.
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  Why The WTS chooses to shoot itself in the foot

  by besty in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  frank and barbara kavelin's recent disfellowshipping for 'apostasy' two years after they stopped going to meetings made me ponder why exactly the wts frequently pursues people long after they have disappeared off the jw scene.

  at first glance it seems a counterproductive strategy to make enemies out of people who would otherwise leave quietly.

  i've had the pleasure of getting to know frank and barb over the last year or so and i know for a fact that frank's story would not be on jwn and freeminds if he hadn't been disfellowshipped.

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  "	i can not frikkin believe they did not/have not df'd me.............oompa hell i would" I'm with you there oompa! OMG- I just quoted Oompa
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  Why The WTS chooses to shoot itself in the foot

  by besty in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  frank and barbara kavelin's recent disfellowshipping for 'apostasy' two years after they stopped going to meetings made me ponder why exactly the wts frequently pursues people long after they have disappeared off the jw scene.

  at first glance it seems a counterproductive strategy to make enemies out of people who would otherwise leave quietly.

  i've had the pleasure of getting to know frank and barb over the last year or so and i know for a fact that frank's story would not be on jwn and freeminds if he hadn't been disfellowshipped.

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  "	i can not frikkin believe they did not/have not df'd me.............oompa hell i would" I'm with you there oompa! OMG- I just quoted Oompa
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  Confessed my Doubts to my Wife

  by cantleave in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  well - i today i had the opportunity to tell my wife i no longer believe in the things that i have spent my life immersed in and that i didn't want my life run by 9 geriatrics in brooklyn.. her reaction was understandable her first questions was "what have you been reading"?.

  i didn't mention this site but told her i was shocked by something i heard regarding the wts's ngo status with the un, dissapointed by the new light on the generation and disturbed by the flip flopping on blood fractions.

  i explained how these things were at best hypocritical and at worst have meant some people have lost their lives unnecessarily because of the societies previous position.

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  treadnh2o

  Very similar to the conversation I had with my wife. Even though she could not argue some of the same issues you brought up with yours, I now think she feels the need to be "strong in the truth". The positive for me is she has accepted having an "unbelieving mate".

  Expect the next few months to be rough. But the inner peace of not living a lie or being controlled by a cult is such a relief.

  All the best,

  Tread
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  where do the refinements come from?, and why do you answer thus?

  by Spike Tassel in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  bluecanary asks [with emphasis mine]:.

  in the past when god's chosen leader acted without his blessing, god corrected the individual/group in an obvious and miraculous way.

  why does it appear, then, that when the gb is "adjusted" it comes from external sources, such as the 1914 generation dying off, or races integrating nationwide.

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  So, Spike now thinks his god needed to "repent" in Jonahs day.

  Spike, isn't yopur god perfect?

  Why the need to repent?
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  Don't You Hate It When A Witness Says "We Miss You At Meetings?"

  by Wasanelder Once in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  don't you hate the hypocrisy when you run into a witness you haven't seen in over 5 years (even thought they live less than five miles away in the same town) and they say, "we miss you at the meetings?

  " they can't call or stop bye to say hello, but they miss me at the meetings.

  what crap.

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  It's all about the glass being half-full.

  When I hear this, and I do often as my wife is still very active, I respond "cool!"

  It renders them speechless and confirms that I have had a successful fade.
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  Off to a JW "Gathering"

  by treadnh2o in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have not been to a meeting this year.

  yet i was invited to a witness "gathering" through my wife and kids.. i really don't want to go.. however, if my reason for not going is because of someones religion, i am really no different than they are.. guess i need to go based on principal.. i won't change my mind, but am interested in your take on this situation.. .

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  I just played a round of golf with "that elder" and an m.s.

  No spiritual talk!-Mind you my fade is complete.

  He wants to play again next week.

  I'll keep y'all posted!

  Stillin- Hard to call me an unbelieving mate. I have had some "nice"
  responsibilities in the org. I also can quote scri[pture to the point of winning any arguement ( although I am forgetting alot :))
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  Why I could not be a JW

  by littlebuddy in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i could not be a jw because of the following.

  i am very weary of churches, org,etc that are so controlled, with little freedom of thought that any expression of difference and one could be on the way out.

  also i feel the jw's have the wrong jehovah, wrong jesus, wrong holy spirit, wrong view of salvation, who goes to heaven, the lost, how the lost spend eternity, wrong view of israel, the 144,000, birthdays, etc.

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  treadnh2o

  Cool!

  What brings you here?
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  Off to a JW "Gathering"

  by treadnh2o in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have not been to a meeting this year.

  yet i was invited to a witness "gathering" through my wife and kids.. i really don't want to go.. however, if my reason for not going is because of someones religion, i am really no different than they are.. guess i need to go based on principal.. i won't change my mind, but am interested in your take on this situation.. .

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  Okay here is what happened...

  Elder host called me into the other room, handed me a beer and said these are for the non-christians here, laughed and had one with me.

  The other elders were almost too scared to talk to me. The kiss-ass m.s.'s wouldn't even look at me.

  There was almost no "spiritual" talk but the condition of the economy surely must mean the end is near.

  And as far as comparing it to other cults, I understand the comparison, however, my wife and kids are not members of other cults, just this one.

  To sumarize, I survived this "get together". (I do love the fact I am forgetting JW lingo :))

  Tread
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  Off to a JW "Gathering"

  by treadnh2o in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have not been to a meeting this year.

  yet i was invited to a witness "gathering" through my wife and kids.. i really don't want to go.. however, if my reason for not going is because of someones religion, i am really no different than they are.. guess i need to go based on principal.. i won't change my mind, but am interested in your take on this situation.. .

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  I showed up for 10 min. and ran out for supplies. No real conversation. Three elders here so far.

  They definitely are more uncomfortable than I am. This could be fun. I won't stir the pot too much.

  Let you know it goes. I'm off again...