Welcome Nothing Man.
Did you know we are having a get together in Lindon next Saturday? Besty & Sweet pea are organising it. Look under Apostfests and scroll back.
Regards llbh
ex witness of 20 years here.
by the grace of god (or something anyway) i managed to get out.
i visited this forum about 5 years ago and noticed the u.n. issue.
Welcome Nothing Man.
Did you know we are having a get together in Lindon next Saturday? Besty & Sweet pea are organising it. Look under Apostfests and scroll back.
Regards llbh
list your reasons why you can say that the witnesses clearly do not have "the truth".
If you have the truth it should be examinable from all angles and still stand up, therefore few if any lines of reasoning should be off limits. That being so let us look into.... 1914..1975... Education ...Shunning.... Child abuse and on. Pick a topic, of what u believe is right it should stand up to scrutiny. Wonder how far i get?
I actually believe it is not the truth for two main reasons, it's latent misogyny and anti education
llbh
another cover-up, this victim when she was 17 make a report to the police, but has stop the pursuit by fear to be disfellowshipped.. .
sylvain daignault.
reconnu coupable en decembre 2006 d'agressions sexuelles sur une personne mineure survenues entre 1985 et 1992, marcel simonin, 67 ans, qui etait un ancien au sein des temoins de jehovah de chateauguay au moment de ces crimes, a ete condamne a une peine de neuf mois de prison, peine qu'il purgera dans la communaute.
That is awful and I am not surprised, until the wtbs change their policies on sexual abuse victims of it will continue to suffer for longer than they need to.
I know at least four victims of sexual abuse (non JW) and of two (JW) and i can tell you it blights and colours their lives.
llbh
it seems we gifted croatia a laugh at our expense before the game last wednesday, let alone afterwards !.
e-mail this to a friend printable version anthem gaffe 'lifted croatia' by frank keogh .
if i have offended any croatians, they have my deepest apologies.
Very funny lol. I wondered why he looked the way he did.
llbh
i know "bttt" means "bump to the top", and is done on threads that people think are good, and.
need help from slipping into oblivion... right?.
what i don't get is that the msgs i see are ordered by simply the date of posting, so how does.
I just learnt something new to, so what's new!?!
Thanks llbh
"...i can not believe that you have fallen for that stupid trick ... you know better then that how can you let that happen to you ...this how you show your love for jehovah you are a fool big time i am sorry to say that but you was a mature man but know you have been blinded by the devil think about bwhat you are thinking and talking .... i will tell you something i am going to call every brother that you were close to not to listen to your demonic issues and i cannot believe you have become an agent for the devil, so sad.
wake -up before it is to late....".
think he actually read the issue at hand?.
When I mentioned these things to wife she said she would wait on Jehovah Enough said that seems to their mindset.
llbh
2.5 how did you react at that time?.
3.how long was it before you somehow took action on this event?
4. was there a particular thing that all of a sudden caused you to wake up, or did doubts build over the years?
1 Liberating
2 Relief
3 Pretty much straight away, though I planned a gradual fade, for family reasons.
4 & 5 Had doubts for long time, however when the elders were stupid & unkind to us about our (then ) very young children, having lost one parent and then on the process of losing the second, i thought I am off, and planned my exit.
6 Not sure, do not care really After 4 & 5 i just new i had to go.
llbh
hey ya'll.
i know there is a lot of buzz due to the nbc story.
i thought i'd share my experience as an elder dealing with abuse.. i attended 23 different congregations in my life and served as an elder or ms in 9 of them.
Hi slmdf
I had this discussion with a friend. I am a governor at a local school, they have definite and rigorous policies on child protection. All governors should attend basic level training. There is also a designated procedure on how to deal with any allegations of child abuse, or suspected child abuse. There are members of staff at a senior level who are tasked to deal with this. . All allegations are minuted thus providing a clear paper trail.
How different from the wtbs!!
on october 6th i registered in this forum, and gave a brief description of my personal experience, promising i would expand later.
the time has gone by very rapidly, other different priorities have kept me away from this forum, which i will not cover otherwise i would take even more time going down to the core of the subject.
my objective, in this forum, is to be of help to others who might be at a loss and who are confronted with the difficult issue of being loyal or leave the organization.
Hi Nick,
Welcome!! What an interesting and detailed post, I had never ever considered the disconnect between the GB and the FDS, but it is now that you have pointed out very obvious. I have known 2 people of the anointed, and i am certain that the were not in contact with the GB.
I look forward to your next post
regards llbh
anonymously, i sent out about 100 emails this morning, about the nbc-news story.
all to jw's from my contact list.
i have not written any of these people for at least two years.
Yeah why do u think they settle out of court and using gagging orders?
I think that as has been said the society looks after itself rather than the victims, for which they have a measure of responsibility. They treat victims very badly hence they leave themselves open to being sued.
regards llbh