Missanna
If you wake up with a dream imprinted thoroughly on your mind, it’s telling you something you need to understand. It is not a simple "review of the day" type dream. This one is going deeper.
Everything in a dream has meaning. Some symbols are universal, some are cultural, and some are for you personally. Without knowing you, it’s difficult to interpret everything with total accuracy.
You left out some details that would be necessary for a good dream analysis, but based on just the information given, here is my take:
The dining table represents the family unit. You are altogether as One unit. After all, you ARE a family and nothing can change that.
You initiated the exchange between your mother and yourself, so this is an unresolved issue that YOU have. You want feedback from your mother. You want her to look at who you are today and speak to it. You want her to acknowledge YOUR LIFE and what and who you are TODAY. You are still a part of the family (you still sit at the dining table) and you want her to acknowledge that.
She does acknowledge it, but she does so in a negative way. Rather than happily accepting what you have chosen for your life, she criticizes you. It saddens and angers you that she can’t accept you for who you are and the choices you’ve made for yourself.
You rage at her answer and storm out. You are the one that backs away from the table. You are the one that chose to pull away without finishing the conversation and seeking to resolve the animosity and tension between you two.
Now the next part of your dream is incomplete. When your sister chases you, is she chasing you in anger or out of concern for you being upset? This is a vital piece to this dream puzzle? So, without knowing her state of mind, it’s difficult to interpret, but I’ll try.
This constant effort to unite her family is KILLING your sister. She loves you and is the one coming to you, the one climbing the ladder to YOUR balcony. Is she reaching out to you? Are you pushing her away? Does she get just close enough, then falls back down to square one?
Without knowing all the dynamics in your family, this part of the dream is cloudy. But, I think your issues are unresolved and the way you are dealing with them is by "storming out", leaving them all behind, and pushing away those in the family that may desire a closer relationship.
Could it be that out of 8 people in your family, you can be close to at least one? If you would like to pm me with additional details, I may be able to give you some better insight.