Hi Scuba,
I'm happy that you found someone to love and who loves you. I hope that your marriage is happy! As far as the celebrating of Christmas goes, I followed the bible on that subject because I also was concerned about it. Being raised a jw, Christmas is an evil thing to do......etc. The difference is that the bible teaches us "to be fully convinced in our own minds" with regard to celebrations. I would suggest that you follow that advice because if you don't then you may have guilt while celebrating. If you follow what the jw's taught us ( which is the same thing as Naked keeps saying) then you won't celebrate and it may cause that old familiar self-righteous feeling that comes from abstaining. The only thing to do, in my opinion is to be "fully convinced in your own mind" Weigh the pro's and con's and pray (if you want) then decide based on the way that you truly feel. The bible teaches us that anything not from faith is sin.
Love in Christ, dj
P.S. Naked, I remember feeling the same way. I'm not being rude but I don't like your picture, do you think that God approves of such a photo? If you do, fine. It is based on your conscience not mine.