I'm still a virgin at 34 and cannot for the life of me bring myself to have sex. Been a JW since I was 15, got DF for immorality a couple weeks ago, didn't have intercourse but did enough to warrant being DF. I'm still not sure it's what I want though, I mean I always wanted to wait til marriage as I think it makes it more special. I also want to make sure the person absolutely loves me before giving myself to him. So unless he proposes to me, no sex.Not to offend or anything but I have to ask: Is it really more special if you wait until your married at 45ish and starting to fall apart, instead of having sex before marriage while your in your prime?
Waiting 'till marriage is fine... if you intend to get married sometime before you're an old person.