The generation change was the last straw for me. I wrote a Letter to the Society which was never answered. My JW parents read the letter and I think it got them pretty upset. Here is a link to the letter.
http://corior.blogspot.com/2006/02/jeffery-m-schwehms-letter-to.html
Pretty amazing. Jeffery's letter could not be more clear and to the point.
It would seem clear that the WTS's expectation of the rank and file is a tacit understanding and agreement that whatever the Watchtower comes up with the R & F will swallow whole with no questions asked and damn well like it. The 1914 flip-flop is particularly egregious to me; as an old-timer, 1914 was always portrayed as the cornerstone upon which so many flimsy JW premises were built. To toss out 1914 so cavalierly is a gigantic FU to millions of loyal witnesses. Bastards.