What really broke this discussion open for me in letting go of my metaphysical superstitions was the factst that:
1. All the components necessary for evolution to occur can be proven conclusively to exist and occur in nature. (reproduction, mutation, selection etc.). There would be no reason to expect these to exist if creation had occured and evolution were made up.
2. None of the necessary components for creation to occur can be proved to exist. (No creator, no observable act of creation.). There would be every reason to believe these can not be proved to exist if evolution were true and creation were made up.
The endless nitpicking and "yeah-but" over the secondary literature confuses many. I recommend reading the primary literature. And if you don't understand it, take some community college courses in evolutionary biology. If you aren't willing to do that, then at least stop thinking there is some conspiracy or sweeping ignorance in the international community of Scientists.