I was reading the story of James Caputo on his site disfellowshipped.org when I came to the realization that I received favorable treatment because of who my father is. I was 17 when I told my father that I didnt want to be a JW anymore because I just didnt really believe in it, I think I said something along the lines of I just don't "feel it" anyways he told me that since I was a minor I would have to keep going to the meetings and that I would have to tell the elders how I felt. So a few days later 2 elders who had known me since I was 6 years old came over and talked to me, although they made it clear from the outset that it wasn't a JC. I basically told them the same thing, they read a few scriptures and that was that. They didn't reproof me or anything. I didnt really think that was a big deal but now I see if I had just been Joe Shmo publisher I basically DA's myself without really even realizing it. By saying I didnt believe in it is a DF offense/sin. Am I wrong here? I got baptized when I was 13 by the way, you know everyone was doing it. I have since moved far away from the place I grew up so I don't know how the old "friends" would treat me now, its been over 10 years. My family is fine with me even though I have told them I don't even believe in the bible. Its kind of dont ask dont tell, they dont inquire about my beliefs and I dont volunteer them. They still insist on inviting me to meetings now and then and mocking me for celebrating holidays with my family but I tolerate it because I figure its better than the alternative.