And you know what else I've noticed, and this also comes as a surprise -- is how CANDID people are!!
JWs live in their closed off mind- too scared to let their real self come out for fear that the brothers and sisters might not like their real self and real conversation. They avoid dealings with wonderful people in the world and lie about why they can't accept social invitations- - the JWs are a secretly an unhappy people, IMO even the elders.