You did the right thing, .. and you are the better person. Be proud of yourself.
It reminded me of a sister in our hall my wife enjoys visiting. She is overweight and she knows it. At lunch one time she was at
a mall and wanted to try a Cinna-bun (spelling?) ... the guy standing behind her said: "Do you think you really need that?"
She through it away never ate it and broke down in tears. Has not had one ever. Its too bad .. she really is a nice person.
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