I don't want to reveal everything here. I have things that I want to hide--my identity for one thing. What is wrong with that? People say what do you have to hide something like you are deep, dark and sinister, or perverted,cowardly or something. Maybe a person just wants a little privacy and to vent and talk without worry. I think saying something like that is being unneccessarily judgemental. I don't think it is particularly prudent to reveal names and places on a board as public as this, but I wouldn't judge anybody for it. I would think they have more courage than I have.
Also how many people really want to know the deep intimacies of our lives the first few times we talk to them? I think you reveal more naturally as time goes on as trust is built up.
If a person jumps on a board and right away reveals everything and writes deeply personal stuff, sometimes it means they are looking for a quick fix, instant gratification. I don't think they stay committed. I think it is a very human thing to do and most people have done it at one time or another but it isn't a very satisfying experience, usually.
I think you get more of what you focus on. The more you focus on the positive, the better your relationships with other people and judgementalism melts away.