lets say we find someone that shows interest, and they decide to research a bit more about THE ORGANIZATION(tm), and they get on the internet, and find your website, and say "hey, these people have all the problems and changes" and they get confused and say "I don't want to have anything to do with them" and decide to stop studying. And THAT is what offends me. You are undoing all the work that the rest of your family is doing."
Funny use of the word "confused" when really such a person would be the opposite of confused.
Another thing your dad got wrong--you're not just undoing the work your family is doing. You're undoing the work a lot of families are doing! LOL