soundbox_guy, sounds like you need to improve your "Wild Sister Radar". Maybe its just rusty from years of non-use.
Wild Sisters are out there. I know of some "Brothers" that view JWs as a safe, clean dating pool. You have to get better at separating the wheat from the chaff.
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You're right Quotes, I wish there was some sort of signal a sister could secretly give out to let you know she's a "wild sister." Maybe she could underline her whole watchtower in red lipstick or wear a certain color toe nail polish....Nahhh, that wouldn't work. It's hard to tell because the ones I'd try to get with, I only see at assemblies.
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TooOpinionated
Welcome, soundbox_guy!
I know exactly the feelings you are having about being on this site. The first time I found this place it was about 3 a.m., my heart was pounding, my hands were shaking, I broke out into a sweat, and I kept looking over my shoulder at the door, even though the entire household was sleeping. I realized something was horribly wrong with our lives if I expected the "gestapo" elders to storm in in the middle of the night!
And the rest is history. I swear, I spent about 3 days just reading and drinking everything in. I just couldn't stop myself. I only slept about 2 hours a night, but it didn't faze me, because my mind was in such a state about what I was finding out here. In the end, I felt so validated to find out that all my gut feelings were right on target. Finally I could put aside the thoughts that there was something wrong with ME for feeling that something was just not right with the WTBTS, despite what the elders said.