Jeannie: this in regards to your latest post in this thread.
It seems to me that you are substituting your judgment for the person "roped in" in your illustration. That seems not only patriarchal but downright self-righteous, selfish and egotistic.
Under your operating philosophy you should go around trying to protect everyone from every form of harm that you perceive that will come to them if they are allowed to make their own choices in life. Obviously you know better what is good for them and should be allowed to make the decisions for them.
Well thank the gods, we are all in the hands of Jeannie. I guess we can all just kick back and relax.
-Eduardo