After having thought about this for a bit- my drunk driving analogy isn't quite the right one to use in this situation because any time a person drinks to a point past the legal limit and then drives a car they are breaking the law. So banning alcohol for responsible drinkers because of the illegal acts of some who have accidently killed others while in that drunken state isn't the same as the point I was trying to make.
FMZ had it with the analogy of driving a car. It's a right, just like owning a gun and can be "accidently" as lethal as a gun while operating it legally. But, if you kill others with a car and it's found that there was any recklessness or inattentive driving involved, there will be consequences for it. Maybe the answer is to hold people accountable for their actions with guns in matters where children get hurt or killed. If you own a gun, YOU are responsible for it and if a child gets hurt while it's in your ownership, YOU pay the price under the legal system. I'd say that is much more equitable for the situation than going to the extreme and banning guns for everyone due to the irresponsibility of a few.
Joanna also hit the nail on the head with this:
This isn't even a gun issue really - it's that a four year old has somehow gotten the message that if I'm pissed off guns/violence can solve my problems. Sick and sad.
Well, since you were one of the first ones to steer this discussion into the realm of gun control as a means to irradicate gun related accidents and how much better things are over there because you have it, I guess you must also be having a real problem keeping on topic. If something is brought up in the discussion, it's discussed isn't it?
XenaW
You are talking about two separate issues here - yes this is an issue of gun control because any moron can go out and get a gun and leave it lying around for their child to blow their head off, just because their constitutional rights say they can (heaven forbid that their right to own a gun is taken away)
Criminals dont care whether it is legal or not to own a gun - so showing stats of gun CRIME doesnt really have anything to do with gun related ACCIDENTS that occur in the home because there is a gun i.e homes of law abiding people who would not have a reason to have a gun in the home if there were laws against it.
Ang, the two issues do meld together and they were already doing that by the time I entered this thread. I was adding my two cents into what was already being discussed. I notice no one else was told they weren't staying on topic, however. But I guess it's easier to say that than to discuss what I posted and it's relevance to gun accidents and children.
I don't see where any of the U.S. statistics separated out those accidents involving children and guns in law abiding people's homes vs. criminals. We don't really know do we? If the presence of guns is the reason for accidental deaths of children, that holds true whether the guns are obtained legally or illegally.
Do we know how many children have been killed accidently by guns in England? It's just as easy to have an accident with a gun and a child in the home of a criminal as it is in the home of a law abiding citizen. Or are criminals more careful with their guns around their children? We don't know these things. What it boils down to is not the guns- it's the people who own them and their personal responsibility or lack thereof.
Well having the guaranteed RIGHT to bear arms is obviously more important than having sensible legislation that would go a long way to reducing the amount of these tragedies that you hear about, as if it was illegal, a normal person (not a criminal), hense good percentage of the population would not have a gun in the home in the first place so the chances of an accident of this sort is greatly reduced.
You cannot legislate stupidity or irresponsibility. Although the story of this child and the real tragedy it is happens to be discussed right now, accidents with children and guns really is a small portion overall. The statistics I posted from '2000 showed 86 total accidental deaths with children involving guns. And as tragic as each one of those deaths may be, banning guns simply will not eliminate that. This sensible legislation you speak of may help reduce this number but will increase other numbers of deaths, including children, due to illegal guns. Banning guns won't make them go away as is evidenced in your own country.