I wish I knew how to quote..... I clicked the quote button but cant get out of it once I paste the quote to type normal again.
He told the elders himself. I remember they used to say the level of repentance must match the gravity of the sin(complete BS)
I told him to display fruits befitting repentance and do a complete 180 and turn away from his sinful course.
I was thinking he needs to get his wife in on the meeting and show that she forgives him. He needs to say that he is so upset that he hurt Jah, the congregation and his wife and that he doesn't even feel worthy of his forgiveness.
I think we may do a mock monkey trial and practice it a few times.