I want to ask her out...

by DanTheMan 124 Replies latest jw friends

  • WhyNow2000

    "Honestly though, I do think I may be aiming a little too high with this girl"

    Dan....ask most DDG(Drop Dead Gorgeous) girls they will tell you that most men are afraid to talk to them. So do her a favor and apporoach her. Generally speaking, women are more into character and personality than men. So dont under-estimate yourself.

    Peace out!

  • Phantom Stranger
    Phantom Stranger

    Getting transferred from "Friends" to "Partners" typically requires FAA approval, congressional legislation, a permit from the county, the signatures of 1000 local voters, and passing an NSA security check. Of course, some people get lucky :)

    Dan, you are plenty hot enough for her. Your self-estimation is the problem - you don't admit it to yourself. Walk around saying "I am hot" under your breath - I guarantee you do this for 4 weeks solid and your opinion will start to shift...

    "Be the ball, Danny."

    Chevy Chase, Caddyshack

  • Guest 77
    Guest 77

    Dan what the hell is wrong with you? By now, I would have taken this hottie to dinner, movies, rides, meet her family and given her a big kiss!

    Guest 77

  • larc

    Dan, You may eventually talk about OSU football if you find out that she likes it. Wow, what a combination, a woman who is hot and likes football. That might be too much to ask for, but it could happen. At the end of my last post, I mentioned the importance of talking and listening. My friend Gerry Bergman, who wrote the book on JWs and mental illness, advised his male students to just listen, and in most cases the woman will fall in love with you.

  • larc

    Dan, another thing. I think a lot of it has to do with the fear of rejection. Hey, someone wants to get a better job, but they are afraid of being turned down. Same thing with a woman. Sometimes you are turned down, and sometimes you are not. You know that the average baseball player only gets a hit less than one out of three. Well, job interviews and starting a relationship with a woman are about the same. Sometimes it works out and sometimes it does not. But, the more you "step up to the plate", the more likely you are to hit a home run.

  • Nosferatu
    Honestly though, I do think I may be aiming a little too high with this girl

    You can only go as high as you allow yourself to. You have a PM.

  • DanTheMan


    I'll take your advice into account. I am so hot. I am so hot.


    I think a big kiss from this girl would be all I would ever need. I practically faint just thinking about it. (j/k)


    I don't know if I'd even like a girl that was really into football. She did smile at me once when I made a comment before class started about not having to be a closet Bengals fan anymore, the shame is gone! (Go Bengals!!!! Could they make the playoffs?) I think being in school will be giving me ample opportunities to step up to the plate, she'll be my first.

    nos, ya gotta know your limits. Don't take this wrong, but judging from your avatar pic, you've got it pretty well together in the looks department, so of course it comes pretty easy to you.You sly dog. I got your PM, yes, there is lots of good advice on the sosuave site.

    Here's my main problem, ladies help me out here -

    I think that women hate men! It's a notion I just can't shake. I think a lot of that has to do with my upbringing, my mom was Catholic (read: repressed and non-orgasmic) I just can't imagine that she and my dad ever had a fulfilling sex life. And she was soooooooo bitter when they went through the divorce.


  • Sassy

    don't be scared if she likes football.. it really is ok for a girl to like it.. my bf and I love every Sunday watching the game, having a few beers.. next year he is helping me with getting into fantasy football too..

    and most women don't hate men.. they are just as afraid of rejection as men are. Just got for it..


    Most of the pretty girls -- who don't know they are pretty -- are kind of lonely, Dan. Men are intimidated by pretty women and hesitate asking them out, they assume the pretty girls have plenty of dates. Truth is, these pretty ones rarely date and they are lonely. I figure once you get past your fear block, and ask this lovely lass out, you will have yourself a date.

    I'm proud of you for setting your sights high! Go git yourself a pretty one, Dan!! You deserve it!!


  • expatbrit
    There's a girl in my math class

    Put on an Aussie accent and ask her if she'd like a square root.

    Make sure she's not Australian first though.


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