I grew a beard while I was still in. The chickens--t elders never said a word. After I left I kept the beard until my hair grew out enought to pull back. I've had a mustache since I was 15, that stays! I got a tattoo when I was an MS. Just never told the bros, they knew, just left me alone about it. All of the vehicles I own are two seaters, except the car my daughter drives. The elders talked to me about the sports cars I owned and told me I needed a good field service car. I remember thinking, "Why should I, no one ever goes out in service with me!" Several of the older brothers loved my Jaguar and asked me if they could drive it. But generally I look HAPPIER now! Maverick