Perhaps they, like me, are STILL ACTUALLY here.
I had a different USER name and logged in daily + posted a hundred+ times over the course of 2 years +/- which helped me get all set up and ready in my mind/heart for the fade.
Then one evening i forgot one step.....I FORGOT TO LOG OUT of this site. The effects of not pushing the "log out" button and the wife needing my computer for a quick second to check something.....created a ripple effect that is worthy of a novel unto itself.
SO! I am now known as Solzhenitsyn, who by the way was wrongly "imprisoned" as I was after...not logging out. :)