Looter, I was once in your dilemma, raised in a JW household and trying valiantly to make sense of God, loyalty and all those questions about life, purpose and meaning.
As such, I can understand the urge to stereotype a group of people (such as non-JWs or athiests): it makes things easier to conclude all people in those groups are the same.
But as you get older, and your capacity to reason comes increasingly in touch with an evidence-based approach, you come to realize how much more complex and beyond simple explanation humanity is.
It takes courage to let go of knee-jerk judgements and reasonings. I hope you stay the course.