I salute you.
Many of you, like me, are probably under enormous emotional pressure, whether from a lingering false sense of guilt from your indoctrination, whether from "invitations," and assumptions that you'll naturally be coming, or whether from outright emotional blackmail, even begging and pleading.
I am thinking of you whoever you are, all of you, even though I don't know you in person. I stand in solidarity with you, and feel your pain on this most cultish night of the year.
Stand strong and be as proud of your convictions, if not more so, than those who are pressuring you to go. After all, your convictions are based on evidence & reality, not faith & fantasy.