I kinda like to think he didn't finish last
Andee your absolutely right on that. That's exactly how I feel. My nice guy, albeit he's crawling right now. to kiss my feet and make up, for his first stupid comment on this thread.
That's what I've been trying to tell him all these years, is nice guys don't finish last. We ended up them because they take good care of us in all ways.
Sure jerks might get far in life in other ways, but lasting relationships for them, is not going to happen.