Hmm....Stinkypantz, good point.
I can't say I've been rendered 'last one picked' because of being too nice.
I am just myself, and I can be loads of fun. I enjoy good company and I love a good laugh and entertainment. I'm not 19 anymore, so I am not as spry as I once was, but pretty good for being long in the tooth.
I am just as choosey however. If someone is a complete boring wallflower, they don't get a call back. If they're interesting, insightful, funny, intelligent without being condescending, then they get to hang out with the 'blade.
As a matter of fact, I've got a 'date' thing this evening. This is date # 2. We'll see how this thing goes.
Being nice doesn't hurt, but put some tabasco on your personality to spice things up 'just a little'.