Nice Guys Vs. Jerks.
Hmm....Stinkypantz, good point.
I can't say I've been rendered 'last one picked' because of being too nice.
I am just myself, and I can be loads of fun. I enjoy good company and I love a good laugh and entertainment. I'm not 19 anymore, so I am not as spry as I once was, but pretty good for being long in the tooth.
I am just as choosey however. If someone is a complete boring wallflower, they don't get a call back. If they're interesting, insightful, funny, intelligent without being condescending, then they get to hang out with the 'blade.
As a matter of fact, I've got a 'date' thing this evening. This is date # 2. We'll see how this thing goes.
Being nice doesn't hurt, but put some tabasco on your personality to spice things up 'just a little'.
I still get a little flutter in my chest when she calls. I enjoy being around her and she actually looks forward to being around me. Can you imagine that? It's a shame it's such a cliche, but it's true. There really is someone for everyone. Amazingly enough, I found the love of my life. I can't imagine being with anyone else.
Dang, Big Tex. That was nice. You're a lucky man.
intense passion burned out
BigT: Passion should never go, you gotta keep the fires burnin' babyLOL Oh, Thunder says it's not EXACTLY a flutter he gets talking to me(giggles)
I never understood women that like bad boys, Thunder is a nice guy not a woose but a genuine thinks he's a bad-ass sweet-heart. I am intolerant of ass***** my brother and father are two of that kind. They riducle their women (plural can you say do wedding vows mean anything to these two) and are just jerks. So, men that are kind and gentle and good to you are priceless and should be shined daily just like a gem.
BigT: Passion should never go, you gotta keep the fires burnin' baby
I think it has something to do with exhaustion. Working at night and neither one of getting enough sleep and then taking take of two small children will make you forward to comfy cuddling rather than sweaty snuggle bunnies.
Well, I have dated both kinds and I have to say I prefer the nice guys....
Actually, I prefer the nicest, sweetest, sexiest most intellegent charming man I've ever met; Sweet Vampyre. I am so glad I married him!
>...There really is someone for everyone...
I differ to beg,because so far this has not proved to be true in my case...
One thing I've learned is that confidence trumps all else when it comes to attracting the opposite sex. Put a very average or even somewhat ugly guy who has total self-confidence amongst a bunch of nervous, self-doubting Tom Cruise lookalikes and guess who takes the lady home.
Nice guys, jerks, whatever, if they have confidence, they'll get the girl.
Dan, nervous-and-self-doubting-and-therefore-not-a-hit-with-the-babes class.
Working at night and neither one of getting enough sleep and then taking take of two small children will make you forward to comfy cuddling rather than sweaty snuggle bunnies
BIgT: That is when you have oral sex...just being together cuddling and talking about it One thing to remember is take time for just the two of you. It is a good example for the children to know that your as important to each other as they are to you. My kids have always mentioned how much they loved us showing we loved each other.
I hear you. Actually I'm looking forward to next Saturday night. We're getting a babysitter and going out to a nice quiet dinner for two. We haven't gone out in months (I can't remember when honestly). No McDonald's, no interrupting, no kids, just a chance to eat some good food and talk.
your conclusion sounds very reasonable....and fits my observations too.
Realist, also of the nervous-and-self-doubting-and-therefore-not-a-hit-with-the-babes class.