You could simply blow off the hearing. Or, if you are forced to go, tell them that you are disfellowshipping them for being a party to the enslavement of the whole world. They are in fact using their damnation book, and the placement of such through the whole world, to supply joke-hova the energy to enslave and damn the whole human race. For sure, that is a far more serious offense than associating with disfellowshipped people, or even the fornication they were supposedly disfellowshipped for.
You will probably still be disfellowshipped. But, at least you will be able to plant a seed of shame and guilt on them, if they still have any ability to have a conscience that is not based on the "duty" to help joke-hova to enslave the whole universe and destroy any and every trace of freedom and ruin all valuable life wherever it may be.