TOES UP:
Sorry! You will be missed. I wish the Original Poster good luck and well wishes.
Everybody is at a different place mentally. Some people have put the religion behind them and don’t want to talk about it. Others never tire of talking about it. I think part of that is because they will never really see justice.
They can never get back time wasted and can’t get over bad advice which may have led to unwise life choices when they were young - such as not getting a career - and they are now in a bad situation as an older person..
It’s an ever-changing amoeba and nobody is accountable it seems..If somebody questioned an elder about this like I did years ago, they might hear something along the lines of “well, nobody forced anybody, etc.” ..This callous remark would be a kick in the guts to somebody who followed bad advice - which is why I’m GLAD I didn’t.
I wish you all the best as well.