Minimus, I've never seen you as such an ass in the past!
A person should leave -- DA, Fade, PIMO (leave mentally) -- however the hell they want to do so and however they feel is BEST FOR THEM! Everyone of us knows the challenge it is and the roller coaster of emotions that result in learning TTATT. Some have family issues over which to be concerned. Or, business issues. Or, emotional issues.
YOU do what is good for YOU! And STFU about criticizing the decisions of others.
Minimus -- You are displaying the same critical, judgemental, gossipy attitude of a JW. UNITY is no longer the ultimate goal here. We can be different. We can choose differently. We DO NOT have to all fit into the same little ex-JW mold like we had to do as JWs.
[Stepping off of soapbox}
Min--Thanks for your many other provocative posts that stimulate thinking.