You know.......... what you need to understand if you take him in as a practicing JW........... your life and your future child's life will be in danger every day....... If he can't live without his beloved JW life.......... forget about him when you learn, the hard way that your future husband and the legal parent of your child would be ready to deny you and your child a life saving blood transfusion.
If You woke up after a bad traumatic experience....... like a serious car accident, you might find he denied giving you and your child a life saving blood transfusion because it is banned from his religion.....one of the dumbest religions out there.
If he loves you he needs to disassociate from this religion. Your protection and/or your future family needs you along with him to protect your loved ones. Right now he is like those people in Jonestown who were blindly led by a madman to poison their children and themselves and failed to stand up to the ignorance and corruption of a made up religion.
Every year I goggle the Jonestown images and look at the photo of a circle of otherwise normal people lying dead.......... with one couple who had a 2 or 3 year old lying between them.... their hands gently on the back of this child holding him down while he died from the poison they made him drink.They were probably good hard working people but misguided as they were unable to see how dangerous their beliefs had become, they didn't know what to do to get out.
I cry every time I see that image.
But I need to see it every year to remind myself that we are not playing a game here. It can get bad really bad in a heart beat with a cult or high control religion.
Jonestown is the mass suicide of (906 people 300 plus were children).
At the least the Blood ban causes that many people to die . It's Jonestown every year for the JW's. Sorry to put it that way but true is true.
Lets cut to the chase. You and or a future child are in a devisint are accident.
