I wish you did know, because I would have one more apostate friend that I know irl :-D
And I don't care much if I'm outed. Everyone who knows me knows I'm out anyway. And while I'm not DFed/DAed after last convention that might not make a difference anymorr either.
It's just that finding out my activities here would very much upset my wife, and I'd like to prevent that from happening :-D