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>> I do consider you a friend, Teejay
After the sheer, horrendous drudgery of finding the steakhouse and then going through the hassle of finding a group of complete strangers (no help from the wait staff, thank you) a month or so ago, you were STILL the first person I looked for and recognized, and I had no hesitation. I will always remember the look you had. Do you remember?
Here, we battle (at times), but I count you as a friend, no doubt. I got nothing but respect for you, Bruh.
That being said, the point isn't whether or not someone posts "thoughtful, insightful, deep and moving things" as you alledge md does. Most folks, if we have a command of English, can ALL do that. In fact, most of us do.
As you said, which is more to my point, "I don't like her vitriolic posts; I think she has lots of room to tone it down."
Duh.
Has she had bad times? Is she female? Do "bad times" and "being female" go hand in hand. I'm thinking...
Duh.
My question is: How does she *deal* with it?
Therein lies the point of this thread. Waiting has dealt with some major shit, too. How does *she* respond to strangers? In email? In public?
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>> My older brother...
No need to tell me about an older brother. Has nothing to do with this thread. But, since you brought it up....
Through a quirk of fate/weird genetics/DNA, my older brother and I look like twins--have even been mistaken for one or the other--even though we were born three years apart. All through school, I was "Little Rusty."
Shall I continue? Wanna hear about the grief I went through since I wasn't somebody else? I didn't think so.
After all, what does this have to do with Waiting? Or your friend md?
I say: "nothing."